Positive revenge, Is it There?

Positive revenge, Is it there? The world is not always on our side, there was a time when we have to face the unpleasant situation. like being insulted, berated, deemed incompetent to do a job or anything else that makes us hurt and insecure.

What do you do if you insulted? lamenting the fate will destroy themselves, complain or reply to what they are doing obviously takes time and self-defeating. But I'm very satisfied if unrequited revenge! (Choice of one).

Reply in the same way is not the only option, it is called negative revenge. There is one way in which this is called positive revenge, what I just heard?
On the negative revenge when we are insulted or insulting retorts we hit back when hit. Perhaps even worse if we are not prepared mentally so we felt like the most despicable people in this world, and low self-esteem.

While we respond positively to revenge all insults or verbal abuse by making it as an insult to the spirit of self-improvement and shows that we do not deserve being insulted. Positive revenge makes us not reply to insults with a punch, but to make us ashamed of insulting people for insulting the wrong person.

Therefore, if anyone insults, made as a whip to achieve success. Let the insults ringing in our ears so that we do not stop working hard to achieve success.

We can not control other people but we can control ourselves. So we are the ones who determine how to respond to the insult.

That's what I get from a book entitled "Positive Revenge" series lightweight motivation works by Isa Alamsyah and Asma Nadia. This book is dedicated to "Teater Kawula Muda" and "Sanggar Ananda".

I got this book when I was studying at the "Sanggar Ananda", contains motivational and inspirational story of famous personalities. Hopefully what I learned from the book useful for readers of my blog. Thank you