My life is ruined because of a breakup, Really?

Breakup? It is a cliche, almost everyone has experienced it. But how to treat the pain of a breakup? Here's the antidote:

1. Not just you who feel the pain of a breakup, but the people who dump you too felt it. So if you've finished making your spouse dump, you should learn to respect his decision. Broadly speaking there are two possibilities (knowledgeably really does). First, he or she has no love or just fool around alone. Secondly, he or she probably could not tolerate our attitude that makes him decide to split up.
   
   The first reason that we throw away the negative thoughts. Just think a second reason may be better. rather put it this way, rather than waste time late in the dumps, better introspection.


2. Unrequited love, in this case try to ask yourself. How many times he or she rejected you and how long have you been waiting?. Better forget him or her, because for the next little chance he or she will say "yes" if he or she has been told "no".Look in the mirror you're too busy thinking about that person you love so forget to love yourself.


3. For people who are hurt by their loved ones, say to yourself "I did not lose the person I love, but he or she who loses a loved one" or "he or she has not too valuable for fighting". Imagine, we've done anything for our loved ones and show how valuable he or she is for us. But what we get? Hurt, we looked like a beggar of love in his eyes. For me personally it's not worth

Introspection and sure one day you will be a special person who is present in a person's life and transform itself to be better and do not dissolve with the story of the past. A dark in our history is just an example so that we do not fall in the same hole, not to be remembered as a barrier to our future. Agree!

Remember! there will be a day where we met with our loved ones and he loves us sincerely. Keep the spirit!

5 tips breaking of stress to the degree necessary

What does make you stress? Because of problem of family or your love! Like it isn’t just that, Seldom feel bored with daily activity also can make we stress. Here I will share tips to break of stress to the degree necessary but effective, think that maybe you can do are:

1.       Go to your friend house

Share your problem with your best friend, maybe your friend have solution that sometime doesn’t think about in your mind. No one know your character as good as your friend (be sides family).

Just talk about other topic with your friend also can break of stress, even exactly your friend that talk about their problem. It will make you feel that you are not alone in the world, because not only you that have a problem. So keep move on!

2.       Go to place that you like

I personally more like to go to the bookstore, just read or find inspiration. But don’t forget! After read, get it back in the shelves. Don’t bring to your home; it will make you more stress to face security, except you pay it! (Lough)

3.       If you are type of planner man

Usually type of planner man already have plan in their brain that will do tomorrow specifically. But sometime the planning make we feel like robot that settled to do like this & like that. It make our feel cannot enjoy our life.

Do different activity from your planning, for example today you have plan to go to bookstore, in the middle of way you think that It must be boring, change your planning immediately. I personally ever go to the train station without plan, just enjoy the journey go and back from Bekasi to Jakarta Kota.

4.       Read motivation book

Read motivation book also make we get spirit to face the day or read biography of prominent figure also can inspire you!

5.       Play a game

If just to take down exhausted, it isn’t a problem. So long as doesn’t make addiction!

That are little tips from me, I hope come in useful. Or maybe you will add the other tips? It will better if it doesn’t make me stress. (Lough)